About Tminus1

I had the perfect relationship (aren’t they all?) but everything changed in an instant when The Now-Ex came home one morning and announced that he was moving out because he could not “do this anymore”. Needless to say, I was stunned and completely unable to understand what had gone wrong and spent the better portion of three weeks simply moping about my apartment with a vacant stare or weeping uncontrollably on the phone with whoever had the misfortune of answering. I knew I needed something to distract me and after trying to keep a mental list of all the ways others have gotten over sour relationships, I decided that a blog would be the perfect outlet. I now set out to document the many new adventures I hope to undertake as I relearn how to be T minus 1.

About Me

My name is T and my post-breakup philosophy is very simple: for every bad thing I do to myself, I must do something good. To this end, I am always searching for new ways to live my life to the fullest and am willing to give nearly anything a try. I currently live in the beautiful city of St. Louis, MO (please visit!) and have no idea what I want to do when I grow up except that it most certainly does not involve a tacky cube with oatmeal–colored walls and a computer that enjoys shutting off for no reason. I geek out on Blues hockey, video games, books on urban development, cooking, craft beers, hiking, and yoga.

How did you get over a breakup? If you know of anything to keep me occupied or simply want to vent, email me at tminus1@tminusone.net