Spa Day

Cara and I finally managed to find a time to head to the spa together and I am very glad now that we went during the week, as we had the place almost entirely to ourselves. The sense of ownership made me significantly less self-conscious than I otherwise would have been in such surroundings. I cannot honestly say that I am not completely comfortable in my own skin but neither am I shy. Hanging out with Cara forced me to abandon any pretense of holding back and just throw myself headlong into a day spent naked or nearly so. It was rather liberating for a spa virgin.

As a first-timer, I did not exactly know what to expect. I simply signed up for the services Jason picked out and went with the flow. I am glad I did, honestly. Their list of options would have overwhelmed me on my own and it was nice to have a decision-free afternoon. All I was required to do was lie on the table and roll over when prompted. It was delightful to put myself in someone else’s care for ninety minutes, letting my mind wander freely. I can see why people pay ridiculous sums of money for this kind of treatment and naturally, I enjoyed every minute of it. It is good to escape my humdrum reality and see how the other half lives but it made coming back to reality that much more jarring.

 

Friends

This may take several tries to perfect but here goes…

I have said this numerous times but it bears repeating: my friends rule. I have a very hard time trying to express my feelings so I can only hope they understand how very much they mean to me. No matter how ludicrous I am acting (see the post about my bathroom woes), they step in to calm me down.

For the past few weeks, I have been working both of my jobs nearly every day. I have not had much time to see anyone and that lack of friend time has made this time even more stressful. I am not entirely sure where I am going with this except to point out that during the few meager moments off, one of them stepped in to offer a laugh, a drink, a night vegging in front of the TV or some combination of the above.

With the holidays around the corner, I started hearing rumors that gifts would be coming my way from those around me. This was rather unexpected, in all honesty. I received them today and was completely floored by both their generosity and thoughtfulness. Cara purchased these fantastic mid-century candleholders, along with a pair of tapers to burn on New Years Day for good luck. Boy, could I use some of that after the year I have had. They will look stunning near my pin-up pictures. Jason bought Cara and I gift certificates for a massage and an espresso mud wrap. Holy crap! We always joke about finding out how the other half lives but I certainly never expected to have the opportunity to experience such luxuries. And at the Four Seasons, no less!

Naturally, my shopping is nowhere near complete and now I feel like a heel. I am not even sure where to begin putting together something half as nice as either of these gestures. I better get cracking, though, as I only have a few days to figure it out and execute.

 

New Book

My birthday money from my Granny arrived in the mail yesterday. A little late considering my birthday is in July but there was a bit of a snafu with the check she mailed me several months ago. I was not upset about it and did not expect the money to be replaced so its arrival was a welcome surprise. This time, however, it was cold, hard cash, the kind that burns holes in my pockets quicker than you can blink. Today, I decided to put a portion of my present to good use and bought myself a new book. I picked up my own copy of 60 Hikes within 60 Miles: St. Louis, which I hope will inspire me to get off the couch more often as the cold weather approaches.

I have a longstanding love affair with books. I rarely buy them but when I do, my entire day brightens. Normally, I try and keep mine as pristine as possible but this one I bought specifically to mark up and get dirty. I already checked off the hikes I have completed (nine and counting) and fully intend to keep it in my hiking bag. This book will serve as a reminder of all the places that I have been and a nudge to get me to explore new territory. I have been slacking quite a bit on that front lately so I am making plans to hike again this weekend if the weather holds. It should be a bit chilly, which makes for a great hike. Maybe this time, I will be able to persuade someone into joining me. Who knows? Crazier things have happened.

Midday Wine Fun

I am very proud to announce that I am officially crossing another item off my list! It has been quite some time but this past Saturday, I visited one of Missouri’s wineries. Mount Pleasant, to be specific and it could not have been a more perfect day.

My friend Steph agreed to drive so Susan and I piled into Big Black for the trip out to Augusta. The drive alone was worth the time, winding through trees painted in the reds and yellows of fall. It also passes near a number of great hiking trails in the area so I made a mental note to draw up return plans that combine these two things. Imagine how refreshing that glass (bottle) of wine will taste after a long hike.

Back to Saturday, though. We pulled into the parking lot in early afternoon and elbowed our way to the tasting counter. I was prepared to fight with the bachelorette party disembarking from the bus but we slid through the door just before them so that saved me from an ugly incident. At Mount Pleasant, it is $5 for five two-ounce pours of your choice and they are paired with Bissinger’s chocolate. Not a bad way to start the day so after Susan and I finished that, we selected our two favorites (one red and one white to suit all palates) and headed out to meet Steph and Tom (who had ridden out on his motorcycle) on the patio. There, we proceeded to drink and chat and in general, enjoy the wonderful Saturday afternoon. It was perfect.

And then I went home and passed out for three hours. Couldn’t have asked for a better day outside of the city.

Side note: my laptop is currently misbehaving. My screen has to be replaced and am waiting on the tech guy to set up the appointment. Perfect timing when I am trying to research a new business idea.

Looking Up?

There is something about a bright, sunny fall day that lifts my mood considerably. I feel that great and wonderful changes are coming my way, almost to the point where I want to pick up my phone and call The Ex just to say “You are missing out on amazing times.” Fear not: I will not do such a thing. I can exercise at least that much self-control. I suppose I am grateful (is that the word?) to him for walking out because it has ushered in such a period of creativity.

I am working on some big ideas right now so send happy energy my way. I am being purposefully cryptic so I do not jinx it but as things progress, I hope to post details.

Blue Note

My Blue home opener wigJoyful news! Yesterday, I got my grubby hands on my Blues partial season tickets! I went in with a couple coworkers to get a ten-game pack and with the season knocking on the door, I was starting to wonder when the tickets would arrive. I have been contemplating my attire for the home opener, debating whether a new blue wig is in order or if I should stick to my tried and true one. See photo for more details. I am rocking my Tkachuk jersey at this point but I believe this year, I will bust out my plain Reebok home sweater since I bought it late in the season last year and had only a few games to break it in. Now is the time of year to purchase a new wig, though, so if that is the consensus, I will have to get moving.

My season prep list is well underway. I assessed the priority need for a new sweater (high). I marked my calendar with the corresponding dates of my ten-game pack (last month, in fact). I am reading St. Louis Game Time (daily, if not more frequently). The last thing I have to decide is what to do about all the other games I am not attending. I do not currently have cable and am really reluctant to give Charter another dime since I already feel that my internet connection is a waste of money since it frequently goes out. But if I do not pay for it, will I be able to adequately follow my favorite team? I can always stream the radio broadcast, which hands down has better announcers than the TV version (Darren Pang is beyond awful), but will that be enough? I could head to a bar to watch but then I have to pay for drinks. I could annoy my friends enough to let me visit for the games but I have a feeling that will wear on their nerves rather quickly. It is a thorny problem and one that needs a solution fairly soon.

LGB! The countdown to October 8th has begun!

 

 

BT/GT I

The above acronym stands for Bad Thing/Good Thing and since that is the entire goal of this site, I assume I will use it frequently so you might want to keep that nugget of info close at hand.

I am still trying to atone for last weekend when my parents came to visit. I did nothing but eat, drink, and be merry (even if it was somewhat forced at times). Do not misunderstand me: it was a great weekend overall. I just did not appreciate having my many cleaning flaws pointed out to me. I am more than aware of my lack of enthusiasm for day-to-day household work, thank you very much, and at this point, I do not see my habits changing significantly. Moving beyond that, the weekend accounted for a massive uptick in the scale, which normally would not upset me but I am in the final days of a weight loss challenge at work and until this point, was doing really well.

Adding to the list of things in the bad category was the mid-week beer school, a night spent chatting with Gazz in the UK with glass of wine in hand, and an evening out helping my friend Jenn learn that acceptance is found somewhere near the bottom of a glass of Schlafly’s Pumpkin Ale. Not a bad week in my opinion but it also means that my balance sheet is quite a bit off kilter.

That leads me to today and the brief, sad tale of my attempt to chip away at my debt. I was up fairly early so I threw on some gym clothes and set off down the street. Missy had given me a fairly straightforward CrossFit workout to try. I have never done one before but I dutifully put it in my phone for reference and promised to try it. That was about two weeks ago. I forced myself to push through it, especially since the entire sequence only took me about forty minutes. My calf muscle is still not running at 100% but I made it, putting a small chip on the good thing side of the scale.

T-athalon

I have been reading The Heart and the Fist by Eric Greitens for the past couple weeks and it has really made me reevaluate my own life. I must first say that Eric seems unreal and had this been a novel, I would have scoffed at the concept. Honestly, no real person goes to college, does humanitarian work in Rowanda, is selected as a Rhodes scholar, and then decides to become a Navy Seal. He is now working on his non-profit, The Mission Continues, to challenge wounded and disabled vets to return to service in their communities. I highly recommend checking this group out, especially the employee bios. Simply amazing. Just listing out Eric’s achievements makes my head swim and then I take a look at my resume and realize that I have done very little thus far. Sure, I have challenged myself mentally and academically numerous times but my impact on this world has been minimal, if that. It is a lot to process and while there are numerous options out there, none of them feel like the right one yet.

White Bison trail marker

End trail!

This leads me to Friday. I had been thinking that I needed a physical challenge after reading the chapter on the Navy Seal’s Hell Week. I, for one, would be ringing that bell after about half an hour on the first day but I figured that I could do something that was still challenging but a bit less extreme. I decided to create a T-athalon to alleviate some stress. To this end, I did an hour of yoga, attempted to run in Forest Park, and hiked the White Bison trail in Lone Elk Park. I will admit that I was a bit overambitious on the running part, as I only managed 22 minutes of it before giving up, but overall, I was quite proud of myself. It was no Hell Week but it was a great start to even more ambitious physical challenges.

Green burrs

My vote for most annoying plant

One last thing: You need to do more routine trail maintenance, St. Louis County Parks Department. I spent nearly as much time picking little green burrs out of my pants than I did actually hiking due to all the overgrowth along the pathways. I am not opposed to pushing plants aside every now and again but to wade through them and come out with a leg full of clinging burrs is obnoxious.